Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Are words necessary when she can see your actions?

I am a 36yr old American. She is 34 British Beauty. I am completely in love with her. We see each other a few times a week. We go to sporting events, out to nice restaurants. I send her flowers and buy her things as an expression of how I feel. We have been dating for 6 months and are exclusive. We have never said that we are boyfriend/girlfriend. Last week, I purchased a greeting card and rode my motorcycle to her house without an invitation. I left the card on her windshield and was riding home when I was in an accident. I wasn%26#039;t hurt too bad and walked away from the accident. I called her after being checked by the paramedics and she rushed to be by my side. I am hesitant to tell her as I am afraid of her response.


Should I tell her that I am completely in love with her, or should I let my actions show her?

Are words necessary when she can see your actions?
Your actions show that you care and love her but almost all women would like to hear those important 3 words... when you tell her that, plan something unforgettable and romantic or simply catch her by surprise when she least expected that you%26#039;ll be saying that.





She obviously cares and loves you too as she rushed to your side during your accident.





Good luck and wishing you both lasting happier unforgettable years together!
Reply:Always go with your first instinct, PERIOD. If lets say she for some weird reason (women are nuts) she doesn%26#039;t feel the same way, WHO CARES, you let it out and period. But listen if the latter occurs, don%26#039;t feel weird about her, just follow along in the same manner as before. She%26#039;ll see that you%26#039;re confident with yourself even after being turned down. Nothing a woman loves more in a man than CONFIDENCE. Wait a minute, you%26#039;re 36, shouldn%26#039;t you know by now?? hahahahaha. Just kidding guy. Go get her
Reply:Sounds like youve already told here. Love is the most misused word. It is the most dangerous weapon. And it is the grandest in the universe. Love is an enrgy created by two people. This energy grows very strong. But within it also is negative. It is the yin and yang. Some people love to argue. They love to hate each other. However theese people tend to gain strength from each other instead of gaining stregth from themselves. The purpose of a relationship is to expeience and create a grander version of yourself. Not her. And hers is to experience and create a grander version of herself. When %26quot;I love you %26quot; remains unspoken it removes the subtle energy that is around you. Why? because the words %26quot;I love you%26quot; is a sign of weaknesss. It expreces that one in the relationship needs reasurance, when the purpose of a relationship is to achieve a grander version of yourself. NOT a smaller version. Why should she need to hear it. Because of her own weakness or yours. Who needs reasuring here is it you or her. Or are you making judgement on her thinking she needs reasuring, (when she is esxperiencing a grander vision of herself.????). No dont tell her. It will be your downfall and her if you do.? Why, because love is an effect, not a cause. It is an effect of expressed goodness, compassion joy and mercy GIVEN to another. (Her). You therefore RECEIVE. (that love in return). When you say %26quot;I love you%26quot; you therefore claim the EFFECT (called love). you try to control it and make it your own when it was a union that brought LOVE into existance, (you and her united). You try to claim the effect (Love ) as your own instead of creating a greater love within LOVE. Remember this. Time does not exist. Space does exist. What you bring into your space will control and create you (you as the effect) unless you affect it. By creating more of this love. (in that space). Keep giving to her and she will give unto you. When you think your all out of love. Give her your evil too. And you will then realize that they are one and the same thing as one cannot be unless the other is. Or not. Jesus was bang on when he said give and you will receive. What he was really saying was %26quot;Yin and yang exist in everything%26quot; And in that when you give, you also receive. In other words what you give unto her you shall receive. Why? because you are her and she is you. Culminating in. There is only one of us. ie, only one being. That being is everything. There is nothing that it is not. What you should ask of yourself is this %26quot;Do i need reasurance from her%26quot;.? if not,then why would she need it. If she needed it, she would ask, and then she would receive.?? Hope you get it you lucky sod. Just kidding, i know you got it. Why?????? Because there is only one of us. Only love is real. Only love exists. Why would you tell love i love you.??? In that you separate it from itself. Nature abores a vaccuum. ??? Good luvin.
Reply:Chances are she already knows that you%26#039;re completely in love with her. Your actions are showing her. Keep doing that. And occasionally, at first anyway, just give her that special look that says, I love you. Then let the words follow.





And yes, words are necessary, even when she can see your actions. Its confirmation.
Reply:Oh no, i hope you%26#039;re alright, i%26#039;ve come off a bike before, its not nice at all. i hope you%26#039;re better!


my darling you MUST tell her. by the sound of it your actions have definately shown, and i%26#039;m sure she probably has a hunch that you may love her but there is nothing nicer than actually hearing those words! it will send her soul flying and her heart flipping!


Good luck sweetie.
Reply:Tell her how you feel. She deserves to know how you really feel about her, that it%26#039;s not just friendship on your part. If she responds in a negative way, ask her if she would still feel comfortable doing the things you%26#039;ve done together for the past 6 months. If she doesn%26#039;t think she can, then you need to back off and give her time.
Reply:First of all, sorry to hear about your accident. Hope you are ok now.





Second, although actions speak louder than words, life is rushing by and we don%26#039;t get a second chance at this life so I would use those words to tell her. She may feel the exact same way but feel a bit hessitant as you do. GO FOR IT!!
Reply:Tell her.
Reply:They r not.At some point intime i went out with a girl i never asked out coz she knew i liked her coz of the way i was acting
Reply:Dude just say it, she%26#039;s prob thinking the same thing to. Be a man and take the leap of faith.


%26quot;Fortune favors the bold%26quot;
Reply:Clearly you are both completely in love with each other, and you%26#039;re right that actions do definitely speak louder than words, but most women I think long to hear those three words anyway, there is nothing more romantic than being told, for the first time, just how much you are loved by that one special person. Why are you hesitating? You have nothing to be afraid of in her response - she rushed to your side after your accident - as you say, actions speak louder than words, she loves you, so don%26#039;t leave her in any doubt that you feel the same way.
Reply:I think you should begin to express your heart-felt feelings for her. She%26#039;s waiting for you to take the lead or take her to the next level.
Reply:For heavens sake man, TELL HER! She might have guessed by your actions and just be waiting for you to say something. Tell her you love her, not just once but every day (as long as it%26#039;s true)
Reply:It%26#039;s true that actions speak louder than words, but if you%26#039;ve been together for 6 months already, just go out and say it! If she didn%26#039;t feel the same way about you, your relationship would%26#039;ve been long over. (Keep doing what you%26#039;re doing as far as actions go though!)
Reply:To my mind her actions have spoken as loudly as yours ever could so go on %26amp; tell her, every girl likes to have it spoken aloud.
Reply:Just say it to her!





She%26#039;s probably been waiting all these months..



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