Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Shold i give it her or not ???

i have bought my gf a chanel purse, for 200£. i have been treating her like a princess. I treated her like a princess at times when i was with her and and when i wasnt. i bought her an expensive armani watch, dvds flowers. I got back with her a week today.....and she is going on holiday on sunday and i have purchased a chanel purse for her. should i give it her when i see her 2mo cos i have told her i will give it her 2mo ???? what should i do

Shold i give it her or not ???
kick her to the kerb you are not happy
Reply:Your can give it to her anytime you want. I dont even think that is the problem. Later on she going to become a gold digger and expect things b/c ur spoiling her. Then their will be problems. Just relax, spoiling her wont buy love, just make her happy at times.
Reply:i did that same to my ex wife i didn%26#039;t get any love in return or anything like that and ended up she left me.


so please don%26#039;t do stupid thing like i did. :(
Reply:If you said you are going to give it to her tomorrow then u are obligated to do so.





If you are spending money on her which you resent doing then stop doing it. You will see then whether she wants you for the things you can buy her or she wants you for YOU!!!
Reply:Treat yourself to something nice while she is away,if she moans about it,get rid,that will show you she is all for herself.
Reply:Stop being such a pushover! let her buy her own things for a change, she%26#039;l never respect you if you keep behaving like this.
Reply:How can there be a question? if you have promised you have promised .
Reply:plank.. you sed u wud give her it so do it numpty
Reply:Stop spending all your money on her, you can%26#039;t buy love.
Reply:No one needs that much money spent on them. She%26#039;s not stupid. You gives, she takes, end of story.
Reply:This sounds like you have been trying to buy her affection and she seems to be not interested. On the other hand, she might be holding out to see how far your gift giving will go, after all there hasn%26#039;t been an expensive car or furs yet.





Sir, I think you and she might need to find out what true love really is and isn%26#039;t. Read in the Bible I Corinthians 13 %26quot;The Love Chapter%26quot; where it says love is patient and kind and seeks not its own way at the expense of others. Love isn%26#039;t boastful or pround and always believes in the positive. This love is such that it would gladly give its own life to save the life of another. It says of faith, hope and love that the greatest is love. It is this kind of love that has kept my wife and I married for over 28 years. If you both don%26#039;t have this kind of love, you are doomed for failure at the start since you probably have something else like lust. Lust will always fail you when someone better or prettier comes along. It takes both to be committed in a loving relationship. It sounds like she isn%26#039;t all that committed. You can develop it with her by being open and honest at your next meeting. If she doesn%26#039;t want to be committed, then stop the gift giving and move on. Then I suggest that you try attending a Bible believing church and join the singles group there. You will be more likely to find someone who will live by the examples of love I quoted above.
Reply:I think you should give it to me. I would REALLY appreciate it.
Reply:yeah stop spending all your hard earned cash on her, sure spend money on lady u love but u gotta stop sometime dude!!
Reply:If you have told her you are going to give it to her then whats your problem in actually giving it to her tomorrow?!!!
Reply:what a sucker!!!



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