Tuesday, April 14, 2009

My wife CHEATED on me what should I do?

So no ****, there I was was. I was getting off work early tonight around 11pm. I bought flowers and a movie and I wanted to surprise my wife. But I was the one who got the surprise. I noticed our bedroom light on when I was walking towards our house. So I entered quietly and began to sneak upstairs to surprise my wife with the gifts I purchased for her. I found her with 2 large black men doing sexual intercourse and oral sex on her at the same time. I threw the flowers at one of the guys and told the other guy to leave right now. After they left I talked with my wife. She said it was not her first time doing that but she promises that she won%26#039;t do it again. I asked why she did it. And she answered that she needs more than what I can offer her if you know what I mean. But she promised to by dildos and not to cheat on me again. Should I forgive her?

My wife CHEATED on me what should I do?
No. She Broke Vows.





It isn%26#039;t the first time.





It won%26#039;t be the last.





Divorce. Now.





Move to another town.








Don%26#039;t be Naive. There%26#039;s a saying: fool me once, Shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.





Do you really want to be her cuckold?
Reply:you could try marriage counseling if you really want to stay with her......but i would leave in a heartbeat.
Reply:You sound like a wonderful man. Very, very thoughtful. I would not forgive her, and I would end the relationship ASAP. There is more to a marriage than sex. Knowing that two strange men were in your bed with your wife is not something you should take lightly. I would be fuming mad. You know it%26#039;s not the first time she did it and how many times has she done it in the past.


This is not someone who loves you, cause if she did, she would of been honest with you long ago. Love means you never cheat or lie. Sex is supposed to be with your partner, not someone to fill the void in her life. If sex is so important to your wife, why couldn%26#039;t she tell you that she wanted to try something new with you, and then maybe the two of you together could of bought some toys or tried new positions or something. I think you need to realize that your marriage isn%26#039;t a good one by far. I would throw her out. Find someone who appreicates you for you. Don%26#039;t be fooled by her crap any more.
Reply:Well Buddy Once a cheater always a cheater... throw her *** out the door. get rid of her and forget your feelings and move on.. If she%26#039;s done this once she%26#039;ll do it again. You will never trust her and you%26#039;ll always have in the back of your mind ( what is she doing ???who is she doing??) If your wife isn%26#039;t satisfied with what you have to offer her in the sexual way... it will never ever work... Move on find the woman who will want what you have and love what you do... Toys won%26#039;t be enough for her.....


Take it from me somone who%26#039;s been there who listened to his feelings instead of what I should have done. I left her 8 yrs ago after being married 16 yrs.... and catching her 5 times... don%26#039;t listen to (I won%26#039;t do it again) she%26#039;ll just not do it again where she%26#039;ll get caught!


just think how many nights you%26#039;ve gone home and kissed her not knowing who%26#039;s piece has been in her mouth... or how many times you%26#039;ve made love to her not knowing that just an hour or two earlier someone else was in there...


what if one of them had aids... you could go years not know before they tell you your infected!!!


be smart dump the *****
Reply:HELLNO %26amp;+ im a woman.
Reply:LEAVE HER!!!





SHE DOESN%26#039;T DESERVE YOU!!





IF IT WAS MORE THEN ONCE%26lt; SHE WON%26#039;T STOP!!





LEAVE HER, NOW!!!!!!
Reply:Why were you bringing her gifts? Birthday, Anniversary, Bad Behavior, Fight? Sneaking up the stairs to surprise her? She could be a rampantly hyper-sexual, dirty whore and you never saw it before..she could have a drug problem, she could be angry or unhappy, she could be paying you back... Women%26#039;s motivations are more complex usually than guys. Yes, %26quot;if they%26#039;ll do it once they%26#039;ll do it again%26quot; - past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior but WHAT she was doing and why. Don%26#039;t assume that its the same for girls as guys. She could be a player or this could be a fake post by a guy typing with one hand.



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